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Your Joyful Path to Success
by Phoebe Fox
Do what you
love, and the effort will not seem like work for it will be a labor of
love. Approach life with joy and imagination, and one cannot help but find
success.
These words of wisdom,
or some version of them, may be found in writings all over the world. So
why is it that we human beings take so long in learning to apply such wisdom
in our own lives? Is it because we think we know better, or is it because
we cannot bring ourselves to fully believe it in the first place?
What is it that holds us
back? The answer can only be our inner fear; fear that we will fail and our
effort will be wasted, fear that we will fail and appear foolish in the
attempt, or fear that we will fail and those who told us we would not
succeed will now step up to tell us, "I told you so." And then, of course,
there is that biggest fear of all -- that we will fail and so be unable to
have the thing we most wish for and dream about.
While it is easy to say,
"Conquer your fear," it seems much harder to actually do something
about it. So when that Tasmanian Devil in your gut is busily chewing on
your insides, what can you do?
The answer is closer and
easier than you might think. If you want to conquer your fear, tap into
your creative imagination. Imagination is the key to creating anything
for ourselves, whether it is a new outfit, a new career, a new attitude, or
a new way of life. Think about it. Every new idea anyone has ever had
began with a spark in that person's mind. And imagination is that
spark.
How do we know it is fear that is holding us back, rather
than the myriad practical considerations (or excuses) we have lined up to
prevent our ever taking that first step off our present path and onto a new
one? It is fear, and I can prove it.
Robert H. Schuller
formed the test when he asked, "What great thing would you attempt if you
knew you could not fail?" Think about that for a moment. If you knew
you could not fail, what things would you immediately get busy doing?
Change careers, start your own business, complete your education, finish
your thesis and actually get that degree, start a family, end world hunger,
clean up the mess in the Gulf, establish a world peace organization, or
what? See how fast the ideas come once the fear of failure is removed?
What else might you do, if you knew in advance that you
could not fail and success was assured? Take off those extra pounds, stop
smoking once and for all, mend your broken family relationships, call Oprah
and ask to appear on her show as a guest speaker on the topic of conquering
fear, and what else? The possibilities seem endless at this point, don't
they? And they also seem like something else -- truly possible for
a change.
When we have confidence in our own efforts, then anything
we can imagine for ourselves feels possible in that same way. The secret is
that this principle actually works. All it takes is exercising the
imagination to see it clearly in our mind's eye.
"I have learned, that if one advances confidently in the
direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he
will meet with a success unexpected in common hours,"
Henry David Thoreau
tells us. His
writings are filled with insights into how we may tap into our imagination
for guidance, for healing, for inspiration, as well as for the courage of
our convictions.
How does one connect with creative imagination,
especially when we have allowed it to lie dormant for lack of exercising it
very often? Step outside your normal routine and place yourself in the path
of connection. "An early-morning walk is a blessing for the whole day,"
Thoreau reminds us. Start there. Get up a little earlier than you usually
do, and give yourself the blessing of having a quiet walk to start your
day. Before the noise and jumble and hurly-burly of the kids, the traffic,
and the job get in your mind's way, take some solitary time for
yourself and let your mind wander where it will. Ponder the question of
what you truly want to do while your feet do their work. The
answers that come may surprise you.
And while you are walking, remember something else that Henry David Thoreau
said, "It's not what you look at that matters, it's what
you see."
Be strong and of good courage as you set your feet upon
your joyful path to success. Check out Phoebe's column, titled
Maintaining Your Visionary Momentum |