Sex Too Early 

Dear Positive Way, I have been in a relationship for 2 weeks. We are talking about sex. Should we wait for awhile?  Signed, milavec_1978, age 29 

Dear milavec_1978, having sex too early in a relationship will change the relationship - and many times not for the better.  I suggest you wait and really get to know each other and don't have sex until you are in a committed relationship.  Sex too early in a relationship is just sex for most men but it has a deeper and more emotional response for the woman.  If you think that having sex now will help or improve your relationship then you will be sorely disappointed.  Ask yourself why you would want to have sex this early in the relationship and if it is because you think it will help the relationship then you are mistaken.   

Please understand you have free will.  This advice is given only in the realm of personal growth and self-help. This is not to be considered a substitute for therapy or professional counseling.  I wish you well.