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Space and motion
We carry a magic space around us of about one arms length. Anything
inside that distance is considered intimate. Men, do not enter a
woman’s intimate space without an invitation. On the first approach,
stand just outside the boundary and look for inviting signs or verbal clues
that you are welcome in. Women, if you want to send a firm
flirting
signal
to a guy, step right up. That’s one reason we like dancing so much.
It allows us to be inside each others’ intimate space without violating the
rules. Follow the woman’s clues on how to move. Women appreciate
the opportunity to control their space and men appreciate the leadership.
If the other person
leans back, turns away or crosses their arms they are saying that this isn’t
working.
When the other person
starts to imitate your movements (mirroring) that is a pretty clear sign
that they are interested and engaged in what you are saying.
Magic touch
We should all be so lucky as to have the direct approach of a passing touch
on our arm. There is little more comforting and exciting than the
human touch. In flirting, the gentler the better. Be sure that
you first are welcome in their intimate space before closing the gap to a
touch. Men are well advised to again take the lead from the woman.
Women set the pace.
Responding and
connecting
If you’ve made it through the first four seconds of meeting someone you have
a chance at connecting. In that moment in time you and they have
already decided if they find you to be intelligent, likeable and if they can
trust you. Don’t waste your time on those you don’t make a connection
with. The general statistics are that only 1 person in 4 is even a
possible match for having any connection much less a romantic connection.
>>Responding and connecting continued
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