Relationship Deal
Breakers
Physical abuse,
mental
abuse, infidelity
, drug or alcohol abuse. What are your
relationship deal
breakers?
Relationship deal breakers
vary from person to person. Some people can tolerate and forgive
certain things that happen within the relationship and still stay in the
relationship. Other people set boundaries early on and once those
boundaries are crossed then they take steps to end the relationship.
If you are dating and not
in a committed relationship then the deal breakers list should be obvious
before any further relationship is developed. Don't live in denial
thinking "I can change this person" You can't change them and it is naive to
think you have that much control or influence over another person.
If you are in a marriage
without children then once a deal breaker shows up it is best to take action
before children are involved.
If you are in a committed
relationship with children then once a
deal breaker shows up
immediate action needs to be taken to get help for this problem. Don't
let it go on and on for years. The sooner you take action to help with
the problem and seek out professional help and guidance the better your
chances are at getting beyond the problem and possibly saving and/or healing
the relationship.
Some Relationship Deal
Breakers are listed below:
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Physical Abuse - call the
domestic violence hotline to seek help 1-800-799-7233
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Mental Abuse - call the
domestic violence hotline to seek help 1-800-799-7233
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Drug or
Alcohol Abuse -
call the Alcohol and Substance Abuse line 1-800-784-6776 or visit
Alcohol and/or
Drug Problems
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Infidelity, Cheating, Adultery, Unfaithfulness - click on
this link and recommended reading list
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Some forms of Mental
Illness - Call 1-800-789-2647 or click on this link
http://mentalhealth.samhsa.gov
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Lying to the point of
pathological lying. - Call the mental abuse hotline at 1-800-789-2647
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Incompatibility - click
on our compatibility guide and answer the
questions
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Excessive Debt -
How to solve money problems
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How
to Survive Cheating - discover how to heal from the pain and
recover from the heart break.
This is like having your own personal therapist. It is a very
thorough process and if you do the work there is no doubt that it will
help. This - how to survive cheating - goes far beyond what you will find in the typical book
- survive an affair.
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How to Catch a Cheating Spouse
Find Out How to Catch a Cheating Husband
or Catch a Cheating Wife and Put an End to the Lies!
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Gambling or other forms
of addiction - click on this link
http://www.addictionrecov.org
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Recommended Reading: The Heart of Addiction:
A New Approach to Understanding and Managing Alcoholism and Other
Addictive Behaviors by Lance Dodes
Also see our
links page for help on some of the above
subjects.
• Alcohol or Drug Problems •
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