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How can I attract the girls?
I'm lonesome. I just can't seem to
meet anybody. I go out to parties or to the bar and I just end up standing
alone in the corner. Nobody will talk to me. And when I do make a move,
I'm shot down. I'm really not bad looking, just shy. What can I do to
make the girls notice me? Lonesome in LA.
Dear Lonesome: You
sound like your personality preference is that of an introvert (shy and less
outgoing). About one in four people are introverts and many tend to feel
left out on the fringe of the action while the rest of the world parties
on. Yes, it is difficult but it's not the end of the world. You can still
meet people. Ask some of your more outgoing friends to introduce you to
people. That makes it a lot easier. Try activities other than the bar or
parties. Join social groups and ask the membership leader or chairperson to
introduce you around. Let them know that you will appreciate their
assistance because you're a bit shy. They'll appreciate your honesty and
may know a shy woman or two to introduce you to. Read some of our other
tips on meeting people. Don't give up. Every single person you meet is an
achievement and another reason not to be lonely. Check out our article
on How to Mingle and
How to
Attract Your Ideal Mate and the 3-minute
conversation guide.
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