I am a cheating husband:
I am that person - a
cheating partner. I understand how I got myself into this situation and have
removed myself from it. I feel so bad, I cannot begin to explain just how
bad. I have been married for nearly 20 years and for most of that time I had
felt as though I was a spectator in it. My wife controls everything and has
a way of making me feel worthless at times. This, however, cannot be used an
excuse for what I did. She does not know about it and I do not want to tell
her. I know she would leave me and I would lose my son as well. I know these
are all things I should have thought about before getting into this
situation. I want to go back to being the husband I was yet better. But I
feel so very bad.
What can I do to save my marriage from my
cheating?
Here are some things for
you to consider:
1. You appear to be
distressed by and remorseful for what you have done. Perhaps that will
provide you with some motivation to work toward a different future.
2. While a difficult
relationship may make it easier to be unfaithful, ultimately the decision
is yours and yours alone. You cannot share the blame with anyone else.
At the same time you have the opportunity to share the responsibility for
your marriage relationship.
3. If you don't like
your marriage relationship, work to improve it. This website is full of
articles and advice on how to improve relationships with problem solving
skills, communication skills and much more. Please use the
site search.
4. Infidelity can not
only ruin a relationship but it can also cause the cheating partner
tremendous stress for a very long period of time. Please navigate to
Break free From the Affair
Saving Your Marriage
and/or Sanity Depends on the Type of Affair If
you are serious about wanting to create a better future this investment is
well worth it.
5. Once you have read
the book "How to Survive Cheating" you will also want to work on
forgiving yourself. This
article on forgiveness is
an excellent start to help you move beyond your pain.
6. We also recommend our material on self-esteem. There are over a
dozen pages on our site relating to self-esteem. Start
here.
You are to be commended
for trying to change your behavior. You will feel so much better when
you no longer have to lie, cheat and hide. Replace that behavior with a
commitment to being a better contributor to the relationships that
really matter in life.
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