Men need to know this about
Women fall in love
through their ears.
Women fall out of
love through their ears.
Many women without even
consciously knowing it test their partners to hear what they need to hear to
feel loved, needed, and wanted and by their partner.
Test question: Honey do I
look fat in this?
Pass answers: Babe you
look great in anything. Or Honey you could wear a potato sack and
look sexy. Or In my eyes you could be wearing anything and still be
the most beautiful women in the world.
Fail answers: Yes.
Or I donít know. Or You have put on some extra weight lately.
Honey lets go shopping together Ė It will be fun.
Sweetie I love spending time with you but I hate shopping. You go and have
fun and when you get back we will have dinner together.
Fail answers: No, I
hate shopping. Or Iíll go but I wonít be happy about it. Or All
right with a big sigh and pout.
Woman comes home from work upset with her boss and starts giving you
You stop what you are doing and listen intently. Or You listen and
paraphrase what she has said and you empathize and agree with her feelings.
Fail answers: You
agree with the boss. Or you say Stop complaining you have
it made there. Or That is nothing compared to what I have to put up with. Or You try to fix it instead of just listening.
question: You are working on your car or a project of some kind and your
woman comes by observing what you are doing and then offers a suggestion.
Pass answers: You stop
what you are doing and listen intently. Or You thank her and say that
is a good idea, Iíll try it. Or you say Wow Ė good insight Ė I will let
you know if it works.
Fail answers: Leave
me alone, canít you see Iím busy. Or That will never work.
Or You donít know what you are talking about.
NOTE: Women need
to hear from their man on a regular basis that they are still beautiful and
loved. They need to hear that their man needs them and wants them in their
life. They need to hear that he doesnít want a life without her.
If you ever do slip up
and say something hurtful to the woman in your life you must apologize as
soon as possible by saying something like this. Honey I am so sorry for
what I said. I did not mean it and was lashing out because I felt hurt.
You mean the world to me. I love you and never want to hurt you. Please
forgive me. A sincere apology and positive actions that follow that apology goes
along way in improving your relationship long term.